Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Problems during affair life

yaar ab prob kis ki life mein nahi hota har kisi ki life mein kuch na kuch toh problems hote h hai well toh kuch prob is love story mein bhi hai.

Love story ? yaar mera pichla blog read karo agar love story janni hai toh aur unko kya probs aai hai yeh janna hai toh yeh blog read karo

Ladka:- well woh toh dil khush insaan tha aur abhi bhi hai bus abhi toh zimedari wala insaan ban gaya hai.. anyways toh apna point tha uski love life mein probs.

Toh mein batata hu well ek acha din us ladki ne usko phone kiya jaise mein last blog mein likha tha us ladki ya yeh pehla call tha toh un donno ne friendship ki ek dusre k saath, donno hi under under se bahut khush the coz woh ladka aur woh ladki donno under hi under ek dusre ko chahte the lekin bus jata nahi paye.

Pehle din jab us ladki ne use phone kiya toh unhone karib 10 minute baatein ki hogi just as a general talk ek dusre ka haal chal pucha aur phir ladke ne mujhe please dubara call karna bolke phone rakh diya well ladka kafi khush tha us din i guesss ladki bhi utni hi khush hogi phir dusre din us ladki ne phir se call kiya donno ne khub sari baatein ki aur kafi saari baatein bhi clear ki aur donno ne ek dusre k saath friendship kabhi na todne ka vaada kiya phir ek baar ladki ne ladke ko miss call diya toh ladke ne call kiya haal chal pucha aur sirf general baatein hoti thi par sach toh yeh tha ladka aur ladki donno ko ek dusre se baat karne mein bada maza aata tha. zahir si baat hai jab tum kisi ko pyaar karte ho toh uske saath baatein kabhi khabhi khatam nahi ho sakti aur uski sabhi baatein achi lagne lagti hai.

Kuch din tak yeh sil sila chalta raha i mean kabhi ladki call karti thi toh kabhi ladka call karta tha but pehli prob yeh thi ki ladki k gharwalo ko pasand nahi tha ki woh ladka us ladki se baat kare lekin phir bhi yeh donno chup chup kar baatein karte rehte the aur zyada tar hamesha ladki usko call karti thi aur sirf uske ghar ke land line se call karti thi ladka bhi usko call karta tha lekin kabhi kabhi coz ladke ki pocket money kum thi toh ladke ko jab bhi us ladki ko phone karna tha us din woh 2 time mein se ek hi time khana khata tha aur ek time ka khana skip karta tha coz woh ek time k khane k rupees se woh us ladki ko phone kar sake.

phir dheere dheere inki dosti badne lagi pehle toh phone par baat karte the ek din ladke ne usko internet cafe mein jane k liye kaha coz ladke ko usko dekhna tha aur ladki bhi bahut khush thi coz donno ne ek dusre ko kafi time se dekha nahi tha toh donno net par jate the cam 2 cam chat karte the kafi khush rehte the plus donno ne ek dusre ko acha attach karke rakha tha agar woh donno ki din mein ek bhi baar baat nahi hoti thi toh donno upset raha karte the phir ek din ladki k gharwale shayad bahar gaye the aur ladki ne ladke ko turant call kiya aur donno phir se baat karne lage.

Woh din ladke ka sabse acha din tha aur sabse bura bhi?? are yaar batata hu ek minute... well ladki ka call aya donno baat kar rahe the ladke ne thodi himat jutai aur us ladki ko bola ki please ek baar "I LOVE U" bolo. ladki ki himat nahi hui coz uske saath aisa pehle kabhi nahi hua tha ladke ne usko bohot zid kiya samjhaya ki yaar we are just friends aur friends mein I LOVE U bol sakte hai finally us ladki ne "AS A FRIEND" I LOVE U bola well but ladke k liye toh sirf I LOVE U sunna zyada important tha phir donno ne kuch serious baatein ki ek dusre ke saath ek dusre ki life ko lekar ladke ne us ladki ko bataya ki woh usko 6th standard se pasand karta hai jab woh pehli baar mile the aur ladki ne bhi bataya ko woh bhi usko tabse hi pasand karte the yeh baat hui aur ladke ne ladki ko propose kiya.

Ladke ko laga shock

Ladki ne ladke ko samjhaya ki woh bhi usko utna hi pasand karti hai aur ladki ne uske pyaar ka izhar bhi kiya aur yeh sab sun kar ladke ko bohot hi khushi hui lekin ladki khush nahi thi phir ladke ne ladki se pucha ki kya baat hai tum itni khoi khoi si kyun ho aur ladki se raha nahi gaya aur bataya ki ladki ki engagement fix ho gai hai. yeh suna ladka ki halat kharab ho gai kya karna chahiye use kuch pata nahi chala woh ek dum khamosh ho gaya lekin ladki ne usko himat dilai ladki ne kaha mein is rishte se khush nahi hu ab tumhe kuch karna padega toh yeh himat ladki ki dekh kar ladke ko bhi himat aai aur usne kuch karne ki than li.

Well woh raat donno k liye badi hi bhayanak raat thi coz donno ne ek dusre se apne pyaar ka izhar kar toh liya hai lekin ladki ki engagement hone wali hai kuch din k baad well dusre din ladki ne call kiya donno ne ek dusre ka haal chal pucha aur donno ne ek dusre ka saath kabhi na chodne ka vaada kiya aur thodi baat karke phone rakh diya.

2 probs all ready aa gai hai
1. ladki k gharwale ladke ko pasand nahi karte
2. ladki ki engagement hone wali hai

3 problem Ghar ka phone BILL


Ladki k ghar phone bill aya uski mom woh bill dekh kar heran ki yeh month ka bill itna kyun hai uski mom bina shaq kare sidha pucha are u talking with SOHIL(LADKA) ladki ne mana kiya uski mom ne dubara pucha ki agar baat karti ho toh bata do varna telephone office mein ja kar number nikvate hai ki itne phones kaha hua hai ki itna bill aya again she denied that ki woh ladke se baat nahi karti well uski mom ne kaha lets go to telephone exchange office well ladki aur uski mom ready ho kar telephone exchange jane k liye nikle tab ladki ne kaha k woh ladke ko call karti hai he mom was shocked uski mom donno wapas ghar gaye aur uski mom ka pehla question tum donno kabse baat kar rahe ho?? ladki ne kaha ki kuch din se ladki ki mom bohot hi pareshan thi uski mom ne kaha mujhe SOHIL se baat karne hai phone lagao uski mom ne ladke ko call kiya aur samjhaya ki meri ladki ko bhul jao aur uski sagai hone vali hai plz usse baat karna chod do. Ladke ne kaha k woh usse bohot pyaar karta hai aur hamesha khush rakhega ladki ki mom ko thoda vishwas aaya ladke par aur uski mom ne kaha ladke se thiik hai apne papa se kaho mujhe call kare mujhe unse baat karni padegi.

Ladke ki life mein 3 Probs ek saath
1. ladki ki sagai rokni thi
2. college mein ladke ki final exams chal rahi thi
3. Ladke ko apne gharwalo ko samjhana tha

Ladka bohot pareshan tha kaisa bhi uska mann padhai se uth chuka tha usne apni exams mein dhyan nahi diya aur woh exams mein fail ho gaya. Well ladkne toh padhai chod di lekin aur 2 tension the ek toh ladki ki sagai rokni thi aur dusra ladko ko apne ghar par baat karni thi.

Ladke ne ek acha din dekh kar thodi himat juta kar usne apne papa se baat ki unhe sab bataya lekin ladke k papa ne mana kar diya ladke ne samjhane ki bohot koshish ki lekin uske papa nahi mane. uske papa ka sirf yehi kehna tha k pehle tum apne pair par khade ho jao phir sochunga. ladka bohot hi pareshan sa rehta tha aur jaise jaise din nikalte the ladki ki sagai ki date pass aati gai. Ladka puri ladai akele lad raha tha shayad uske dosto ko toh yeh sab pata bhi nahi tha phir ek shaam ladke ne socha uske cousin bade bhai se baat ki jaye.

Ladka uske cousin k ghar gaya uske saath beith kar baat ki usne apne cousin ko samjhaya kya chal raha hai aur usne apne cousin ko bola k aap papa se baat karo toh shayad woh man jayenge uske cousin ne baat ki lekin phir bhi papa nahi mane finally ladke ki life mein ek acha din aya jab ladki ne himat karke uske ghar pe sagai k liye mana kar diya ladki ki yeh himat dekh kar ladke ko bhi ladne ki himat aai aur usne papa se kaha ki thik hai aapko jab baat karni hai tab karo lekin aap jab tak baat nahi karoge ladki k gharwalo se tab tak woh khana nahi khayega papa ne bhi us ladke ki himat ki exam li 1 din ho gaya ladke ne kuch nahi khaya 2 din 3 din jab 4 din ladke ko chakar aae aur woh gir gaya tab papa ne ladki k ghar par pehli baar phone kiya aur ladki ki mom se baat ki.

Well mere papa aur ladki ki mom k bich kafi sari baatein hui aur kafi sari baatein clear bhi hui but at the end ladki ghar wale bhi mann gaye aur ladke k gharwale bhi maan gaye and all were happy for this relation

Yaar pyaar karna bohot aasan hai lekin wohi pyaar k liye ladna ek yudh hota hai coz aksar aisa hota hai ki tumhe choice karna padta hai pyaar ya parivar aur us time agar hum choice nahi kar sakte toh sach maniye hum kabhi pyaar nahi kar sakte aur agar kar sakte toh kabhi us pyaar ko nibha nahi sakte.

Mein aur meri wife (is story k LADKA, LADKI) hum ne yeh time bohot mushkil se nikala tha lekin humne piche hat ne faisla kabhi nahi liya koi bhi probs aai hum ne mil kar use face kiya aur aaj mein garv k saath keh sakta hu ki mein jo faisla liya sahi liya kyunki mujhe yeh faisla lene ki himat mere pyaar ni di thi.

I LOVE U ALOT GUDIYA



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  2. You know what Sohil.... Hats off to Gudiya.. I mean Alefiya.... She is so brave and she actually stood strong for her commitment with you! I am so touched by your story. Your life is just so common as everyone faces the same kind of problem but the way you guys have handled is something making me proud! You are amazing! I am feeling so great that you never denied Alefiya! You guys are lucky and blessed by Almighty God! i really wish you always stay together and your life fills with love and happiness forever! Love you a lottttttttttttttttttttttttttt... to you and Alefiya!

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